As a caregiver of a disabled adult - for whom outside care is a rarity - I appreciate these insights on what it feels like to shape and retain a creative life (or frankly any kind of self identity outside of the caregiving role) within all-encompassing caregiving parameters. Allowing myself the time for my projects, scheduled on the cale…
As a caregiver of a disabled adult - for whom outside care is a rarity - I appreciate these insights on what it feels like to shape and retain a creative life (or frankly any kind of self identity outside of the caregiving role) within all-encompassing caregiving parameters. Allowing myself the time for my projects, scheduled on the calendar as much as possible, even in small bits, reminds me of my value.
This has gotten easier over time - but honestly it has made a huge difference financially and psychologically that our state allows parents to be paid as caregivers for disabled adults (& just recently extended that option for those under 18, which is incredible). I can afford (be worthy of) time in unpaid creative outlets because at least some of my other time is being compensated.
thanks for sharing your perspective, Robin--it's really powerful to hear about the practical *and* psychological impact of being compensated for the care you're providing.
As a caregiver of a disabled adult - for whom outside care is a rarity - I appreciate these insights on what it feels like to shape and retain a creative life (or frankly any kind of self identity outside of the caregiving role) within all-encompassing caregiving parameters. Allowing myself the time for my projects, scheduled on the calendar as much as possible, even in small bits, reminds me of my value.
This has gotten easier over time - but honestly it has made a huge difference financially and psychologically that our state allows parents to be paid as caregivers for disabled adults (& just recently extended that option for those under 18, which is incredible). I can afford (be worthy of) time in unpaid creative outlets because at least some of my other time is being compensated.
thanks for sharing your perspective, Robin--it's really powerful to hear about the practical *and* psychological impact of being compensated for the care you're providing.